What NOT to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving
What not to say: Summary Common phrases like “they’re in a better place” or “I know how you feel” often […]
General Writings
This section brings together essays and reflections on life, loss, and the meaning of farewell. It also addresses specific topics related to the funeral experience. All of the writing here is grounded in the belief that doing something meaningful matters, both for individuals and for the communities around them. That does not mean you need to have an expensive funeral but it does mean that doing something matters.
The Financial Side of Loss
The Financial Side: Summary Death brings unexpected costs including funeral expenses, potential medical bills, and legal fees that families must
Honoring a Loved One: Beyond the Funeral
Honoring a Loved One: Summary Creating personalized tributes like themed celebrations, memory gardens, or charitable initiatives helps families maintain connection
How to Help a Grieving Spouse
How to Help a Grieving Spouse: Summary When someone loses their spouse, they need both practical support with daily tasks
Things to Think About When Choosing Cremation
Cremation has been a part of human history for thousands of years. Some families choose it because of tradition, others
The Seven Steps of Loss
The Path We all Walk Losing a loved one changes everything. It takes you off the normal path of life
How a Viewing Impacts Your Grief Journey
Seeing Is Believing Most people have heard the saying, “Seeing is believing.” But many have also lived through experiences that
How Funerals Have Changed
It was not that long ago that over 90% of funerals followed a predictable pattern. There was a private gathering